Liaison office of Grand Ayatullah Sayyid Ali Al Sistani (L.M.H.L) in London, Europe, North and South America.
The mujtahids talk about prohibition of looking
indecently and lustfully at women.
By the expression “prohibition of
looking lustfully,” they mean that it is prohibited to look at them with
sexual desire. By the expression “looking indecently,” they mean a glance that
could lead one to a situation whereby they may be tempted to commit a
haram act.
It is permissible to look without lust at the women who would not listen,
if they were forbidden from exposing themselves [by not observing the
hijab].
Therefore, it is permissible to look at the face, the hands,
and the feet of the woman as well as those parts of their bodies that they
normally expose in public but not those parts that some of them, against their
own custom, would expose publicly.
This is with the condition that the look is
not combined with carnal appetite and the onlooker should not fear the
temptation of getting into a situation whereby they may commit the
haram.
(See the question-answer section below and issue No. 500).
It is not permissible for a man to look at another man with lust;
similarly, it is not permissible for a woman to look at another woman with
lust.
Homosexuality (Ash-shudhûdh al-jinsi) is haram.
Similarly,
it is forbidden for a female to engage in a sexual act with another female,
i.e. lesbianism.
(See the question-answer section below)
Masturbation by any whatever means is forbidden;
Based on obligatory precaution, one must refrain from viewing
pornographic pictures and films, even if one looks at them without
indecent intention and lust.
(See the question-answer section below)
The immoral establishments have produced an item that has the features of
the private parts of a woman, and it is possible for a man to become intimate
with it by placing it over his penis at bedtime. Based on obligatory
precaution, one must refrain from using, it even if he does not intend to
reach the stage of ejaculation.
This law applies without any difference
between a married and an the unmarried man.
(See the question-answer section
below)
It is permissible for a man to use the condom to prevent pregnancy;
however, it is precautionarily obligatory that he should seek the consent of
his wife to using it.
It is not permissible for a Muslim man to go to unisex swimming
pools and other places where people go about half-naked.
That is if it entails
a haram act.
Based on obligatory precaution, one must refrain from
going to such places, even if it does not entail a haram act.
A Muslim man is not allowed to shake hands with a woman without a
barrier, such as gloves, unless refraining from shaking hands will put him in
a considerable harm or unbearable difficulty.
In the latter case, he is
allowed to shake hands to the extent of necessity only.
(See the
question-answer section below)
A young man is allowed to kiss his young sister or maternal aunt or
paternal aunt or their small daughters out of affection and love. However, he
is not allowed to kiss them, if it entails sexual arousal.
It is haram to play chess, regardless of whether or not the
play is with betting.
It is also haram to play chess through
computerized instrument, if there are two players involved in it.
Based on
obligatory precaution, one must refrain from it, even if just the computer is
the other player.
(See the question-answer section below)
It is similarly haram to play with instruments of gambling in
which betting is involved.
Based on obligatory precaution, one must refrain
from it even when no betting is involved.
It is permissible to engage in sports games with balls like
football (soccer), basketball, volleyball, table tennis, handball, etc.
It is
also permissible to watch such games at the sports stadiums or on various
displays and monitors with payment or without payment as long as that does not
entail a haram act, like looking with lust, or neglecting an obligation
like salat.
It is permissible to engage in wrestling and boxing without betting as long as it does not lead to serious bodily harm.
Based on obligatory precaution it is not permissible for a man to
shave his beard.
Similarly, it is not permissible for him to just leave
the hair on his chin and shave the sides.
This too is based on obligatory
precaution.
(See the question-answer section below)
A Muslim is allowed to shave his beard, if he is compelled to do so or if
he is forced to shave it for medical reasons, etc.
It also allowed if he fears
harm to his life by not shaving or if growing the beard would put him in
difficulty (for example, if it becomes a cause of ridicule and humiliation
that is not normally tolerable by a Muslim).